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Calling All Radiant Redheads!

Calling All Radiant Redheads!

Calling All Radiant Redheads!

Calling All Radiant Redheads!

Dear Beautiful Redheaded Woman,

Want to play in the snow before it’s gone? It finally snowed here in the Chicagoland area and I got to play all weekend with some Radiant Redheads!

l knew the winter was going to be difficult after being in Denver last year so I wanted to embrace the winter by combining my love for redheads with the snow.

Introducing my Radiant Redhead Project!

If you are a redhead or know any redheads of any

DETAILS

This is a just for fun project…No Charge!
15 minute headshot
Photographed in the snow
For Women/Girls All Ages
Must be a Redhead by nature or choice 🙂

Email: [email protected]

Phone/Text: 630.302.0720

If you are a redhead or know any redheads of any ages please pass the details along.

If no one has told you today…You Are Beautiful!

Love + Light 

Lesley

 

Good for your HEART

Good for your SOUL

FINDING Me by VIOLA DAVIS

Okay one of my fav daughters (they’re all my favorites:)  gifted me this book at Christmas and I cannot recommend it enough.

Let’s face it Viola Davis is Queen Badass herself! When Viola takes on a role you forget that’s it’s her and get captivated by her portrayal. I think I’ve seen her in almost everything she’s done. Most recently, The Woman King where she was a total badass Agojie leader. Based on a true story about an All female warrior fighting unit protecting the African Kingdom of Dahomey.

Her memoir Finding Me is honest, brutal and beautiful description about how she rose and is still rising like a phoenix from the trauma of past. She came from a place of extremes most of us will never experience; alcoholism, poverty, physical and sexual abuse racism, colorism and much more.

She created a life that didn’t look possible when she was growing up…Queen Badass!

Written by Lesley Whitehead

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Where Did My Inspiration Go?

Where Did My Inspiration Go?

Where Did My Inspiration Go?

Where Did My Inspiration Go?

Dear Beautiful Uninspired Woman,

In the book I mentioned last week, Marry Your Muse Jan Phillips writes that a friend once told her “If you wait for inspiration, you’re not a writer, you’re a waiter.”

It’s true while journaling and planning, reflecting and dreaming are all important in the creative process only the doing actually moves you forward.

The beloved author Madeleine L’Engle, A Wrinkle in Time, said it best in her quote above “Inspiration comes during work, rather than before it.”

It’s also true that you can lose your inspiration if your work is interrupted which happened with my 55 Women Project.

I was on a roll in 2021 traveling and photographing planning to be done in 5 months however, the project turned out to be bigger than I imagined and I wasn’t giving myself enough time.

I moved at the beginning of 2022 so plans for my project stalled.

I traveled to Kansas City, Missouri in March and captured another beauty.

In June, I traveled to Denver and was re-inspired after photographing 4 more amazing women. However, once I returned to Illinois I lost my momentum.

In July, while in Taos, coach Natalie Miller suggested I might be kinder to myself since moving across country 2x in less than a year was a huge undertaking of itself not to mention all the adjustments of moving in with someone so I gave myself a break…the words of a wise woman.

After my return, I was inspired once and photographed 3 more beautiful women here in Chicago.

Home projects and family obligations sidelined me in the fall and the holidays…well that’s a whole other distraction isn’t it.

It is now the 2nd week into 2023 and I am 5 women away from completing my project. Once again I am stalled on inspiration so I must take action to move forward.  Here I sit committing to you that I will capture the remaining 5 this month yes January it will be done.

Well the photography anyway there are many more decisions to be made ahead about what I do with all this amazing Truth + Beauty.

All this to say inspiration is not only difficult to come by it’s really hard to stay inspired over a long period of time even if you’re doing something you love. 

I’m sure that’s why of all the resolutions made only 9% are successfully completed by the end of the year.

Here’s my advice…take action, don’t wait for inspiration. She’ll roll in once you’re creating, writing, painting, photographing, collaborating in the zone. Please don’t forget when you get sidelined, and you will, be kind to yourself take a nice deep breath and begin again.

If no one has told you today…You Are Beautiful!

Love + Light 

Lesley

Good for your HEART

Good for your SOUL

Meet Madeleine L’Engle she’s a Baddy 🙂

I actually found her quote but had no idea who Madeleine was until I googled her. She is a total badass before her time…a trailblazer, my favorite kind of woman. Did you know A Wrinkle in Time holds the distinction of being one of the most frequently banned novels in American literature?

As the only child of two artists, her father a writer, playwright her mother a pianist, Madeleine wrote from an early age and spent much time alone as a young child.

Her belief that science and God are not at odds — a radical and, to some, even blasphemous assertion was a theme in several of her novels.

When she was in boarding school she developed a skill: an impenetrable “force field of silence” that she could inhabit like a magical cloak. “Within that force field, I could go on writing my stories and my poems and dreaming my dreams,” she said in an interview decades later. It was an effective tool, and one that would always serve her creatively.

Her manuscripts, letters, and other archival materials are housed at Smith College in Massachusetts and Wheaton College in Illinois.

The above is an exerpt from A Biographical Sketch by Abigail Santamaria

Written by Lesley Whitehead

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Me First in 2023

Me First in 2023

Me First in 2023

Me First in 2023!

Dear Beautiful Reflecting Woman,

I’ll be honest, I lost myself this year and no matter how hard I tried I just couldn’t find my footing both literally and figuratively.

If you follow me you probably know this already…my last email was from my birthday July 28th and my social media posts have been non existent.

Moving back to Illinois last February and in with my partner proved to be exciting as well as challenging. As much as it was a wonderful open hearted decision combining our lives together, the move and adjustment caused much distraction from my own wants and needs both personally and in my business.

We had a lot of fun creating a collaborative household full the objects we loved while enjoying time together but it took the year to complete because of construction and family matters.

During this time I made the mistake of returning to an old pattern of mine…putting everyone else needs before mine.

I stopped taking care of me in all the ways I needed.

No one asked me to do this by the way, it was just my fucked up perception of my place how I felt needing to “pay for’ the space I was taking up in ways that served others and not myself and it set me back in many ways.

I lost the trajectory I had created in Denver with my 55 Women Project and focused on trying to “make money” by helping others with their businesses and personally by taking on tasks that I thought would help us as a family.

The good news is that I’ve recognized my pattern and I’m breaking it starting today first and foremost by literally putting my best foot forward and going for a walk this morning to clear my head…a morning practice that I let slip away last year. 

I am also breaking the blocked damn by writing and sending this letter to you.

I am committing 2023 to ME. To all the desires and uncompleted projects from 2022 as well as new dreams for 2023 such as…

Finishing my 55 Women Project

Launching my Podcast

Speaking to Groups

Traveling to Photograph amazing women I haven’t met yet and share them with the world

Taking creative classes just for fun

A trip to London

Just to name a few.

I hope you give yourself the gift of time for reflection over the past year so that you recognize any patterns keeping you from the life you desire.

Please don’t stand in your own way in 2023 we need all the amazing you bring to the world.

If no one has told you today…You Are Beautiful!

Love + Light 

Lesley

Written by Lesley Whitehead

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I Moved Back to Chicago For LOVE!

I Moved Back to Chicago For LOVE!

I Moved Back to Chicago For LOVE!

I Moved Back to Chicago For LOVE!

Dear Beautiful Woman!

I have BIG NEWS! I moved back to Chicago in February for LOVE!

Moving to Denver last year was something I needed to do for myself. I had been in a 4 year relationship and he did not want to do long distance so I had to trust and let go.

I shocked myself when I realized 10 months later that while I loved Denver, I loved him more and was ready to share my life with him…that it was more important to be together then where we lived.

I called him and dropped that biggie…he listened, took time to process and said YES!

We took advantage of a break in the February weather to move me back with all my stuff and it’s now official we are coupled up and cohabitating!

I share this with you because I want you to open your heart to what you want most in your life AND be vulnerable enough to ask for it. Don’t let fear or what the outcome will be stop you from asking for what you truly desire.

This is also a lesson in trusting yourself. I found this great meditative exercise to confirm what you truly want in your deepest soul. Here’s how it works…

  • Relax your body…go through all your parts.
  • Envision 3 doors with an answer behind each door…Door #1 Yes… Door #2 No…Door #3 Need More Information.
  • Take 5 steps back from the doors.
  • Count down from 10.
  • The door that lights up is your answer…what you want most.

You could record the meditation and play it back to yourself so you have it whenever you need to do a “gut” check.

This is a great meditation for all areas of your life.

I am so happy to be back home with “B”…there are so many signs that this was the right decision and I’m so glad I took a chance, was vulnerable, asked for what I wanted but most importantly gave myself the time and space to realize what I truly wanted.

I hope that you give yourself this gift today and everyday.

In the meantime, if no one has told you today…You Are Beautiful!

Love + Light

Lesley

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3 Steps to Prepare for your Personal Brand Photo Session

3 Steps to Prepare for your Personal Brand Photo Session

STEP 2

Rest Up &

Hydrate

The night before the shoot get plenty of sleep and drink lots of water so your skin looks fabulous and fresh! Schedule your “LNO” after your session to celebrate not the night before!
STEP 2

Fun &

Free

Have fun with your session! This is all about you and  your brand so enjoy yourself.  Be silly, natural, loud, share all your stories…be your authentic YOU.
STEP 3

Props &

Creativity

Tell all your stories as creatively as you can and don’t be afraid to use props to share your process.

 

PROP IDEAS FOR UNIQUE IMAGES

 

Here are a few prop ideas…make sure you include them on your Pinterest Session Idea Board.

Solopreneur/Coach – phone, computer, planner, pen, favorite mug, calender, headphones.

Artist – brushes, paints, recent work, easel, paper, pencils, clay, art books, inspiration.

Interior Designer – Mood board, swatches, computer, ipad, phone, pen, pad, planner, fav mug.

Writer – Books, pad & paper, post it notes, journal, typewriter, chair, computer, fav mug.

Graphic Designer – computer, inspiration board, computer pen & tablet, planner.

Musicians – Instrument, pad & pen, chair, blanket, tuning instrument, instrument case.

Realtor – listing contracts, for sale sign, clients, ipad, computer, champagne glass & client gift.

 

 

Remember to include people as your props they can help tell your stories more clearly!

Finally, don’t forget to include your hobbies…
Hobbies – your favs…books, instruments, art, garden, recipe, exercise, bike, game, decorating, antiques, boating, wood working, pottery, jewelry making…whatever you enjoy.

Chef –  Bowls, recipes, knives, cutting board, pad, pen, spatula, apron, hat.

Yoga Instructer – Yoga mat, blocks, books, towel, water bottle, tea cup.

Jewelry Designers – Tools, safety gear, loose jewels & clasps, organizers, inspiration boards.

Chiropractor – Skeleton, diagram, table, pad & paper, computer, exercise ball, straps, fav mug.